Where your callers come from often determines how fast or slow you should go with them. If they come from an ad in the back of a XXX magazine, then a lot of them are very hot by the time they connect with you. Advertising during adult movies, or on porno sites would also bring a lot of hot callers who are a bit impatient...

Our callers, most of them anyway, do not come from anywhere of that sort. We do some advertising, but the main source of our callers is simply that we own numbers that spell naughty things on the telephone. For this reason, we get a higher percentage of first-time callers, who aren't used to saying dirty words, don't have access to porn in their homes, or who maybe weren't even sure what they were going to find when they dialed...

Going into sex quickly with these callers is a mistake. You'll usually have a short, shallow call as a result of going farther and faster than he does first!

They haven't called a million times, maybe they don't know the "routine"... these guys like to chat for a little bit and see if they like you before getting into the hotter subjects with you. Of course, if your caller says, "can we just get on with it?" of course, get on with it! However, most callers will appreciate that you seem interested in him and you're taking a few minutes to get to know him.

Let them lead you there... Just be interested in him and attentive, and you'll be the girl he wants to take :)